I hope everyone is doing great today, I was contacted by Jorny from Besthairbuy.com and this proved to be a chance for me to get a little more intimate and personal with you guys. I have been getting quite A LOT of questions about my hair, I don’t talk about it a lot because I just don’t see the importance but it seems like a fun little topic and I decided to share my two cents with you guys.
First of all I do consider myself as an artist, (cough-cough-cough) I have always enjoyed the versatility of something as simple as hair, it’s a chance to change your entire look by doing something as simple as coloring, braiding, putting on a wig or even cutting it. When I first started my blog it was truly an outlet for me to express myself, and this included my hairstyle, I have always been a fan of big curly crazy hair, (blame that on “Diana Ross” a.k.a “my second mother”) it seemed like big untamed manes always demanded a magnitude of presence, hence my slight obsession.
And just like “my second mother”…my big curly lifelike hair is a wig, and no I am not bald underneath it all (I knew you were thinking that, not that anything is wrong with being bald), but my curly hair had become a character as well as I had and I just couldn’t let it go, it became quite a partner and a known presence on here. Some people do feel a little uncomfortable addressing this topic of wearing wigs or fake hair but saying those three little words “it’s a wig!” is actually quite liberating…(to me at least).
We woman *cough* already have complexes about ourselves (we are our own worst critic)…always comparing ourselves to every single thing, dead or alive, animate or inanimate, we have created this invisible animosity and jealousy amongst ourselves and we crave it as much as we dish it…(you get the point).
So why did I decide to spread the news of my big curly WIG? , well it’s simply because I don’t want to be responsible for creating another complex for any woman. I don’t want you to log unto my blog beating yourself up for not having “that big genetically growing hair like mine” (lol)…you can go out and buy it just like I went out and bought mine. I want you to derive comfort in the fact that my mane is not priceless...it is store bought. Ladies, I just want yall to wear your hair however the fuck you want and please do that unapologetically.
And to my beautiful lovely subscribers, always remember …
“Who gives a shit at the end of the day?!”
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